About Mary

I was born in New Zealand, which makes me literally one in a million*

HERE’S ME IN A SOUNDBITE:

I’ve been a journalist for more than thirty years, with ten years in corporate communications and public affairs, and twenty running my own business. Now, I write the main monthly advice column for Psychologies magazine, and work as an investigative coach with individuals and teams.

The extended remix:

As a journalist for more than thirty years, I use those skills in service of my coaching clients. My corporate career included public affairs, government relations and building professional networks. I love the art of influence: the impact we have on other people, without relying on direct power. I will never learn all there is to know about storytelling.

Qualified as an executive coach with Meyler Campbell in London, with supervision from Professor Carol Kauffman, of Harvard Medical School.

A Fellow of the Institute of Coaching

I often work with clients in data or health – it’s not my background, but we share a passion for evidence

Clients come to me because something has changed, or they want it to. It might be that their role is becoming more visible, or they need to navigate complex relationships. I love talking about values-based leadership and team development.

I have dual nationality, New Zealand and British, and four grown-up English children. Ha, I say grown-up, but my decisions are still based around them. Family, extended family, community – whanau as we say in New Zealand – is big both literally and metaphorically for me.

I read footnotes, try to get better at cryptic crosswords, go walking and sailing, and volunteer locally.

 

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Flashbacks:

The 1990s: I persuaded a man to have his vasectomy filmed, in a first for London Weekend Television.

I was non-British and a non-engineer, and one of the most senior women in GKN, seen as the bellwether of FTSE-100 manufacturing.

Business Director of the Whitehall and Industry Group, a networking organisation for companies and civil servants

Founder chair in the UK of the biggest expat Kiwi community, Kea.

Edited a glossy magazine - an exclusive interview with New Zealand Prime Minister Helen Clark was a highlight. Also wrote for The Times, Good Housekeeping, the New Zealand Listener, Unlimited, and NZ News UK (here’s one of my favourite pieces from there)

* The population of New Zealand is five million and there’s an estimated million of us outside the country.

Cycling in Tuscany: proof that the Leaning Tower of Pisa had no safety barriers in the 1980s.